Susuto

I know what you are going through. Time to be alone is essential to help us go through this difficult time - to acknowledge our sadness and our loss/anger etc, to accept and to prepare to move on. But I don’t believe in staying as friends immediately after a break up. It just slow down the process of healing if one party is not handling properly. Then it will turn out to be sour. I’ve gone through it and my friends have gone through it. One of my gf broke up with his 7 years lived in bf. They maintain as friends and contacted each other. Initially both support each other. Later the guy met another girl and my friend couldn’t take it cos she has been lying to herself that they can be friends. The friendship becomes sour. Soon, she stopped contacting him and also asked the guy stop contacting her. Once the string totally break, then only she truly going through the healing process. That’s how I look at it!